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Create the Relationship You Know Is Possible
You don’t need to fix your partner—or yourself—to feel more love, ease, and connection. Relationship coaching is about reconnecting with the calm, clarity, and wisdom that already lives inside you, so you can show up with more presence, understanding, and compassion. Whether you’re feeling stuck, growing apart, or simply want to feel closer again, this work will help you move beyond old patterns and into deeper connection—with your partner and yourself.
Are you struggling in your relationship?
You want to feel good again...
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You love each other, but you feel stuck in unhelpful patterns.
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You're craving more closeness, ease, and meaningful connection.
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Your communication often leads to frustration, distance, or shutdown.
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You want to grow together—not apart.
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You know there’s more to your relationship than what you're currently experiencing.
Whether you’re in a good place and want to make it even better—or struggling and unsure what to do next—this work will help you create the relationship you truly want.
Get Help From a Relationship Coach
Free Mini-Course for Clarity in Uncertain Times
You’re not broken—and neither is your relationship. But something feels off. You’re questioning whether this is the life you want. The pressure to decide—stay or go—can feel overwhelming. And under all of that noise? Confusion. Guilt. Fear. Hope. Love.
This free course is your invitation to slow down.
You'll learn how to get beneath the mental chatter and reconnect with your inner clarity. Not by overthinking or analyzing every detail—but by seeing your situation with fresh eyes and tuning into the wisdom that’s already within you.
Whether you stay, go, or take space to reflect, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of yourself, your values, and your next step.
This isn’t about forcing a decision.
It’s about remembering that you already have what you need to make one.
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Ready to transform your relationships from the inside out?
This powerful coaching community is
is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, deepen your self-awareness, and create lasting change in the way you show up in your relationships.
Through live coaching, powerful tools, and meaningful conversations, you’ll stop self-sabotage, gain clarity, and shift old patterns. Whether you’re working to improve your current relationship or simply want to feel more connected in love and life—this is your space to grow, be supported, and thrive.
Let’s create relationships that feel aligned, loving, and true to who you really are.
Redefining Relationships Community
This is how it might look for us to work together...
Private 2-day immersion to quiet the noise and see your relationship with fresh eyes
Coaching support (individual and/or together) focused on insight, clarity, and connection
On-the-spot coaching between sessions—because life doesn’t wait for your next appointment
1-day closing immersion to integrate the changes and build your vision forward
Individual or Couples Coaching
What is Relationship Coaching?
I work from the belief that you’re not broken—and neither is your relationship. Change becomes possible the moment you begin to see things differently.
CLARITY THROUGH INSIGHT
Right now, it might feel like your mind is spinning with “what if's,” frustration, or uncertainty. Together, we’ll slow things down so you can get out of your head and into a place of calm. You’ll start to see your relationship—and yourself—with new eyes. When the noise quiets, clarity comes through.
FEEL MORE GROUNDED
Big emotions are normal in relationships. But they don’t have to run the show. I’ll help you understand what your emotions are really telling you, and how to find stability—even in hard moments. You’ll learn how to stay calm, connected, and clear-headed, no matter what’s going on around you.
RECONNECT FROM THE INSIDE OUT
You already have love, compassion, and wisdom inside of you. I’ll help you reconnect with that. From there, your relationship shifts—because you’re showing up differently. You become more open, more curious, more kind. And you invite your partner into that same space of trust and connection.
Hi! I'm Wendy
I believe in living fully expressed—with honesty, intention, and heart. I’ve spent years learning, growing, and walking alongside others as they navigate the beautiful complexity of relationships. And I’m still learning. I know there’s always more to discover—about ourselves, about love, about what’s possible.
What I do know for sure is this: hope can change everything. It can offer you a fresh start, a new perspective, or a way to see possibilities that once felt invisible. Hope is what we need most in difficult times—and even the smallest spark can be enough to get things going. Like building a fire, it begins with a flicker. You feed it, you give it oxygen, and before long, it becomes something strong and steady.
That’s what hope does in a relationship. It breathes life into it. It creates space for connection, growth, and healing. I believe every relationship contains the possibility of change. And I’m here to help you see that too.
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CLARITY FROM WITHIN
You don’t need to fix yourself—you need to see yourself more clearly. Together, we’ll explore how your moment-to-moment experience is being shaped by thought, not by your circumstances. As you reconnect with your inner wisdom, confusion lifts and you begin to see what matters most—what’s true for you—without all the noise.
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CONSCIOUS CHOICE & PERSONAL POWER
When you understand how experience is created, you stop feeling like a victim of your relationship, your emotions, or your past. You begin to take ownership—not through force, but through insight. This is where real change begins. From this grounded space, you’ll make decisions that align with your values and bring ease into your life and relationships.
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PRESENCE THAT TRANSFORMS
Love, joy, peace, happiness, and connection are not things to chase—they’re states of being that emerge when you're present. As you learn to drop out of overthinking and into the present moment, you naturally become more connected to yourself and your partner. From here, better communication, deeper intimacy, and meaningful change can happen.
What to Expect
Hire A Coach
"Wendy was a huge support during one of the darkest times of my life.
She reminded me to focus on myself instead of things out of my control. Forever grateful.."
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Get help to find clarity, feel supported, and reconnect with the happiness you’ve been missing.
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Reconnect with your inner truth so you can show up with clarity, calm, and authenticity in all of your relationships.
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Break free from old patterns and begin to embody the version of yourself that invites real, lasting connection.
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Get clear on the relationships and life you truly want—and have a compassionate, steady guide beside you as you make it real.
COACHING
For individuals or couples who are ready to find their way back to each other.
If things feel tense, confusing, or disconnected right now—you’re not alone. And it doesn’t mean the love is gone. That warmth, that laughter, that feeling of being on the same team—it’s still there. Sometimes it just gets buried under stress, miscommunication, and life’s noise.
In private coaching, we’ll slow things down, get curious (not critical), and create space for real insight to show up. From there, the path forward starts to feel clearer, lighter, and more doable.
Because when we feel seen, understood, and supported—connection, peace, and joy start to come back online.
Coaching isn’t about fixing you. It’s about helping you remember who you are underneath all the stress, fear, and overthinking.
It’s a space to slow down, reconnect with your own wisdom, and see life with fresh eyes. Whether you're facing a major decision, relationship struggles, or simply feeling stuck—coaching creates the conditions for insight, clarity, and lasting change to emerge naturally.
You don’t need a five-step plan. You need space to hear yourself again.
CREATIVE INTENSIVE 2 DAYS
Step away from the noise of everyday life and reconnect—with yourself, or with each other—in a powerful, private retreat experience.
Set against the calming backdrop of Colpoys Bay, this 1:1 retreat offers space to breathe, reflect, and rediscover what truly matters. With dedicated coaching before, during, and after your retreat, you’ll gain clarity, reset your direction, and open up to what’s possible.
Whether you come on your own or as a couple, this experience is designed to help you feel more grounded, more peaceful, and more hope.
Every relationship contains the possibility of change.
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Your Questions Answered
You might have questions—and that’s a good thing. Whether you're curious about how coaching works, wondering if it’s the right fit for you, or simply want to know what to expect, this section is here to offer clarity and ease. If your question isn’t answered here, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to help.
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What is coaching?Coaching is a supportive, forward-focused partnership that helps you reconnect with your own wisdom, gain clarity, and create meaningful change in your life and relationships. It’s not about fixing you—it’s about helping you see that you’re not broken. As your coach, I won’t give you all the answers. Instead, I’ll help you slow down, get curious, and see beyond the noise and overthinking that’s been keeping you stuck. From that grounded place, you’ll make better decisions, communicate more clearly, and show up more fully—for yourself and the people you care about. Coaching is practical, powerful, and rooted in the belief that you already have everything you need. Sometimes, you just need someone to help you see it.
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How is coaching different than therapy and counselling?Therapy and counselling often focus on healing the past, treating mental health concerns, or understanding how past experiences impact your present. Coaching with Wendy is about looking in a new direction—one that’s grounded in the present moment and the belief that you are already whole, resilient, and capable. I’m not here to analyze or diagnose you. I’m here to help you quiet the mental noise, reconnect with your innate wisdom, and see your challenges with greater clarity and perspective. This work doesn’t require years of digging through your past. Instead, it reveals that insight, peace, and change are available to you right now. When you begin to understand how your thoughts create your experience moment to moment, you naturally begin to shift—from overwhelm to ease, from fear to freedom, from conflict to connection. It’s not about coping better. It’s about seeing differently. And that changes everything.
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How long does the coaching last?Coaching isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s about what works best for you. Some clients come for short-term support—maybe a few sessions to get clarity on a specific challenge. Others choose to work together for several months or more as they navigate deeper transitions, like improving a relationship, moving through a divorce, or reconnecting with themselves. Most of my coaching programs begin with a 2-day immersion followed by 3 months of 1:1 support, because lasting change takes some time, insight, and practice. But we’ll always tailor the experience to your needs, your pace, and your goals. You're never locked in—but you’ll likely find that once you start seeing differently, you’ll want to keep building on that momentum.
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What if I’m just considering divorce?That’s exactly the right time to work with a coach. You don’t need to have all the answers right now. In fact, this in-between space—when you’re unsure, overwhelmed, or silently wrestling with “Should I stay or should I go?”—is where coaching can be most powerful. We’ll create a calm, non-judgmental space where you can hear yourself think, explore your options, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and make decisions that align with your values and your future. No pressure. No agenda. Just clarity, support, and real conversations to help you feel steady and strong—whatever you decide.
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Are my conversations confidential?Yes, 100%. Everything you share in our coaching sessions is completely confidential. This is your safe space—to explore, reflect, question, and express whatever’s on your heart or mind without fear of judgment or concern about it being shared. I hold your trust with deep respect. Your privacy, emotional safety, and well-being are my highest priorities.
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What if I need to speak with you in between our sessions?You’re not alone between sessions. Coaching isn’t just a once-every-two-weeks conversation—it’s ongoing support. You'll have access to on-the-spot support between sessions for those moments when you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or need a little clarity or encouragement. You can reach out by voice message, text, or email, and I’ll respond within an agreed timeframe. Sometimes one insight or reminder in the moment can shift everything—and I’m here for that.
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Will there be work to do between sessions?What you do between sessions matters more than our conversations. This is a time for you to be open and willing to try new things, to take action, and to show up in your life in a way that is true to who you are. Together we will decide the best way to move forward. This may include books to read, podcasts to listen to, informal assignments to gain clarity around an area in your life that you would like to change, practicing communication skills, etc. We will work together to meet your objectives and create action steps to get there.
HAVE MORE QUESTIONS? WE'RE HERE TO HELP.
We look forward to meeting you.
Start your journey of self discovery
TAKE THE FIRST STEP
You don’t have to do this alone.
At Redefining Relationships, you’ll find personalized coaching that meets you where you are and helps you move forward with confidence, clarity, and compassion.
Together, we’ll explore your what matters most to you and create a path that feels aligned, grounded, and true to who you are becoming.
COMPLETE THE FORM
Ready to take the next step?
Fill out a short form and book your personal consultation with Wendy.
This is your chance to share what’s going on in your life, ask questions, and explore how coaching can support you—whether you’re looking for clarity in your relationship or navigating a major transition. Let’s talk about what you need, what matters most to you, and how we can move forward together.
WHY REDEFINING RELATIONSHIPS?
When we work together, you’ll…
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Reconnect with your natural clarity and wisdom—guiding you from within, not from pressure or fear.
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Begin a grounded and gentle exploration of what’s true for you, beyond the noise of overthinking.
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No longer be a victim of your circumstances.
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See possibilites and potential rise to the surface.
APPLY NOW
You don’t need to be fixed—because you’re not broken.
Beneath the noise of confusion or overwhelm, clarity is already within you.
Whether you're seeking more ease in your relationship or navigating a life transition, we’ll slow down together, listen deeply, and explore what’s possible from the inside out.
You don’t need all the answers. Just a willingness to begin.
You need a coach to help you see the answers already inside you.
