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People pleasing, inner freedom and YOU.

AHA'S AND ACTION:

Here are 2 thoughts, 2 inspirations, and 1 question for you to reflect on this week…


2 THOUGHTS FROM ME


1. I have spent five decades trying to make other people happy, being who they want me to be, doing what they want me to do, and my life has been great. I will spend the next five decades being me, listening to my inner knowing, deciding what I want to do, and giving when I want to give, and this is exciting.


2. I know that I cannot control what anyone else says, or does, or thinks, and this allows me to simply accept what is, decide how I am going to show up, and what actions I am going to take.



2 INSPIRATIONS FROM OTHER PEOPLE


1. Syd Banks Perspective on the Inside-Out understanding. Syd quotes “the answer to the great mystery of life is that our feelings are only coming from thought in the moment. The principle of thought is spiritual and divine; it is the gift of life.”

In my life’s ups and downs this principle allows me to understand my thoughts and to connect with a deeper feeling inside of myself and in the world. I have the resources and common sense to guide me in my game of life. When I connect to my inner knowing, I feel peaceful and grateful and happy, and I remember that life is a gift.


2. “I had the disease of people pleasing.” by Oprah Winfrey.





1 QUESTION FOR YOU


1. Have you said ‘Yes’ to something that you don’t want to do? Maybe you should consider changing your mind and say ‘No’.



 


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