Fix or Finish? How to Determine if Your Marriage is Beyond Saving

Have you been asking yourself, “Should I stay in this marriage, or should I get a divorce?” Maybe questions like, “Should I wait until the kids are older?” “Is my partner having an affair?” or “Why don’t we connect anymore?” keep running through your mind. This constant uncertainty is draining and keeps you in a loop of indecision.

The truth is, that both, marriage and divorce require work. What’s important is deciding where you want to invest that energy—are you all in for working on the marriage, or is it time to be all in for a healthy separation? Either choice is okay, but living in the middle isn’t.

Take a moment to ask yourself some crucial questions: “What am I doing to make my marriage better?” “Is there more I can do, or have I given everything I can?” If you feel like you’ve reached the limit of what you can give, it may be time to explore what comes next.

I created a course 7 Divorce Challenges and Solutions to help you gain clarity on what’s truly best for you and your family.

Each day, you’ll work through questions designed to guide you toward either investing fully in your marriage or moving forward with a divorce that’s handled thoughtfully and respectfully. Whether you choose to stay or go, this course will help you envision a future filled with positivity, strong relationships, and a solid plan for what lies ahead.

You don’t have to stay in limbo. Start making decisions and take actions that lead to the life you deserve—whether that’s building a thriving marriage or creating a fulfilling post-divorce life. Both are possible, and the clarity starts here. 

Remember, you are loved, you are perfect, and you’re going to get through this.

Wendy

xoxo