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Are you struggling with separation and divorce?
You feel unhappy, stuck, scared. It's hard to feel this alone....
Navigating major life transitions is easier with the right people by your side. Their expertise, insights, and support can turn feeling stuck into progress.
Instead of wondering, “How will I manage this?” ask, “Who can guide me?” The right support offers fresh perspectives, tailored strategies, and empowers you to make sound decisions with resilience.
Finding the right support isn't just helpful - it's transformative.
Get Help From a Divorce Coach
Free Course: 7 Divorce Challenges & 7 Solutions
Start your journey with clarity and calm.
This free mini course offers practical, insight-rich strategies for navigating the most common challenges of divorce. Whether you’re just starting out or feeling stuck, you’ll find guidance to help you feel more steady, informed, and confident about your next steps.
It’s a simple, supportive way to begin moving forward—with less overwhelm and more clarity.
7 Divorce Challenges & Solutions
I’d love for you to be part of this brand-new community.
This is a space for connection, growth, inspiration, and meaningful conversations. A place where we learn from each other, try new things, and remember what it feels like to come home to ourselves.
Because happiness isn’t something we chase—it’s who we are underneath the noise. And that’s what we’re creating here—together.
I’ll be live in the group twice a week.
Join me for real-time coaching, open conversations, and Q&A sessions where you can bring your questions, explore fresh perspectives, and get the support you need—right when you need it most.
Redefining Relationships Community
Real change starts from within.
One-on-one coaching is a space for clarity, not just strategy—for reconnecting with your deeper sense of direction, not just fixing problems on the surface.
This isn’t about hustle or pressure—it’s about creating room for fresh insight, meaningful action, and a deeper trust in your own wisdom. With steady support and a grounded approach, you’ll begin to see life with more ease, navigate challenges with confidence, and move forward in ways that feel aligned and true to you.
You’re not broken. You don’t need fixing.
You just need a clear path—and a safe space to find it.
1:1 Coaching & Support
What is Divorce Coaching?
Support. You are not broken. You do not need fixing. Change becomes possible the moment you begin to see things differently.
CLARITY OF MIND
When you're in the thick of separation or divorce, your mind can feel like a tornado of fear, overthinking, regret, and “what ifs.” Through our work together, I help you recognize that you are not your thoughts. Your mind will settle when you stop trying to control or resist the storm. And from that quieter place, you’ll see clearly. You'll begin to make decisions that align with your values, instead of reacting from fear or confusion.
Clarity isn’t something you find—it’s something that’s revealed when the noise fades.
EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE
The pain of divorce isn’t caused by the event itself—it’s caused by how we think about it. That means your ability to heal doesn’t depend on your child's' other parent, the court, the lawyer, any other person, or your circumstances. You are designed with resilience. By understanding how feelings are created from moment to moment, you stop fighting your emotions—and they begin to flow through instead of holding you down. From that space, strength and peace begin to return.
Resilience isn’t something you build—it’s something you uncover.
ALIGNED ACTION
With a quieted mind and a softened heart, you start to hear your own inner guidance. You stop outsourcing your decisions to fear, other people’s opinions, or your past. You begin to take aligned action—choosing what’s right for you and your family from wisdom, not from wounds. Whether that means rebuilding your life, co-parenting with intention, or reconnecting to yourself, you’ll move forward with more ease, compassion, and integrity.
You don’t need a map for the whole journey—just enough light for the next step.
MEET YOUR COACH
Wendy Rovers
It wasn’t just a belief that changed my life—it was an insight.
A quiet moment that shifted everything.
At the time, I didn’t realize how powerful it was. I was in an unhappy marriage with four little boys and for the first time I went away for the weekend—alone. Just me, a dark room, and a blank piece of paper. I wasn’t looking for transformation. I was simply trying to figure out what to do next.
And then, something clicked.
In that stillness, I saw something deeper. A glimpse of how we really work as human beings. It wasn’t dramatic or loud—but it landed like truth. And from that one moment, everything began to change.
That spark became the start of a much bigger journey—one that continues to this day. Since then, I’ve spent years exploring how we create peace, presence, and happiness—not through force or fixing, but by reconnecting with what’s already inside us.
This is the heart of the work I do now.
I don’t coach from theory. I coach from lived experience and grounded understanding.
Because when you see the truth of your mind—when you realize that your wisdom, your clarity, your peace was never gone, just overlooked—everything begins to shift.
You are not broken.
You don’t need fixing.
You just need to come home to what’s always been true for you.
And I’m here to walk with you as you do.
A CLEARER MIND and CALMER HEART
You’ll begin to see how much of your stress comes not from your circumstances, but from your thinking about them. As we gently turn down the mental noise, clarity, peace, and insight naturally rise to the surface.
A RETURN TO YOUR INNER WISDOM
Together, we’ll reconnect you to the quiet, steady place within—the part of you that already knows what’s best for you. You don’t need to be “fixed.” You just need space to remember who you are.
REAL CHANGE THAT FEELS LIGHT and DOABLE
This isn’t about pushing or forcing your way forward. It’s about uncovering the deeper truth beneath your struggle, and from there, making decisions and taking actions that are aligned, compassionate, and lasting.
What to Expect
Hire A Coach
"Wendy was a huge support during one of the darkest times of my life.
She reminded me to focus on myself instead of things out of my control. Forever grateful.."
- ANNIKA
Get help to find clarity, feel supported, and see new possibilites.
A Clearer Mind
I’ll help you quiet the mental noise, shift out of overthinking, and reconnect with your inner clarity—so you can make decisions from a grounded, peaceful place.
A Stronger Sense of Self
You’ll remember who you are beneath the stress, fear, or confusion. Together, we’ll uncover your values, your wisdom, and your ability to create the relationships and life you truly want.
Real-World Support with Heart
You’ll get honest, compassionate guidance—and practical tools you can actually use. I’m here for the deep conversations, the gentle nudges, and the small shifts that lead to big transformation.
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Your Questions Answered
Embarking on a journey through divorce can raise many questions. We've compiled a list of the most frequently asked questions to help clarify common concerns and provide you with detailed insights. If you have more questions, we're here to answer them and guide you every step of the way.
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What is coaching?Coaching is a supportive, forward-focused partnership that helps you reconnect with your own wisdom, gain clarity, and create meaningful change in your life and relationships. It’s not about fixing you—it’s about helping you see that you’re not broken. As your coach, I won’t give you all the answers. Instead, I’ll help you slow down, get curious, and see beyond the noise and overthinking that’s been keeping you stuck. From that grounded place, you’ll make better decisions, communicate more clearly, and show up more fully—for yourself and the people you care about. Coaching is practical, powerful, and rooted in the belief that you already have everything you need. Sometimes, you just need someone to help you see it.
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How is coaching different than therapy and counselling?Therapy and counselling often focus on healing the past, treating mental health concerns, or understanding how past experiences impact your present. Coaching with Wendy is about looking in a new direction—one that’s grounded in the present moment and the belief that you are already whole, resilient, and capable. I’m not here to analyze or diagnose you. I’m here to help you quiet the mental noise, reconnect with your innate wisdom, and see your challenges with greater clarity and perspective. This work doesn’t require years of digging through your past. Instead, it reveals that insight, peace, and change are available to you right now. When you begin to understand how your thoughts create your experience moment to moment, you naturally begin to shift—from overwhelm to ease, from fear to freedom, from conflict to connection. It’s not about coping better. It’s about seeing differently. And that changes everything.
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How long does the coaching last?Coaching isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s about what works best for you. Some clients come for short-term support—maybe a few sessions to get clarity on a specific challenge. Others choose to work together for several months or more as they navigate deeper transitions, like improving a relationship, moving through a divorce, or reconnecting with themselves. Most of my coaching programs begin with a 2-day immersion followed by 3 months of 1:1 support, because lasting change takes some time, insight, and practice. But we’ll always tailor the experience to your needs, your pace, and your goals. You're never locked in—but you’ll likely find that once you start seeing differently, you’ll want to keep building on that momentum.
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What if I’m just considering divorce?That’s exactly the right time to work with a coach. You don’t need to have all the answers right now. In fact, this in-between space—when you’re unsure, overwhelmed, or silently wrestling with “Should I stay or should I go?”—is where coaching can be most powerful. We’ll create a calm, non-judgmental space where you can hear yourself think, explore your options, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and make decisions that align with your values and your future. No pressure. No agenda. Just clarity, support, and real conversations to help you feel steady and strong—whatever you decide.
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Are my conversations confidential?Yes, 100%. Everything you share in our coaching sessions is completely confidential. This is your safe space—to explore, reflect, question, and express whatever’s on your heart or mind without fear of judgment or concern about it being shared. I hold your trust with deep respect. Your privacy, emotional safety, and well-being are my highest priorities.
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What if I need to speak with you in between our sessions?You’re not alone between sessions. Coaching isn’t just a once-every-two-weeks conversation—it’s ongoing support. You'll have access to on-the-spot support between sessions for those moments when you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or need a little clarity or encouragement. You can reach out by voice message, text, or email, and I’ll respond within an agreed timeframe. Sometimes one insight or reminder in the moment can shift everything—and I’m here for that.
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Will there be work to do between sessions?What you do between sessions matters more than our conversations. This is a time for you to be open and willing to try new things, to take action, and to show up in your life in a way that is true to who you are. Together we will decide the best way to move forward. This may include books to read, podcasts to listen to, informal assignments to gain clarity around an area in your life that you would like to change, practicing communication skills, etc. We will work together to meet your objectives and create action steps to get there.
HAVE MORE QUESTIONS? WE'RE HERE TO HELP.
Contact us to get the answers you need and to discuss how we can support you through your divorce journey.
Start your journey of self discovery
TAKE THE FIRST STEP
Taking the first step toward change can feel scary—even when you know something needs to shift. But you don’t have to figure it all out right now. And you don’t have to do it alone.
When you’re supported in a space that’s calm, grounded, and clear, you start to find your own way forward—at your pace, in your way. Coaching with me is about reconnecting to your own wisdom, building trust in yourself again, and navigating the changes ahead with clarity and strength.
If you’re ready to begin, I’ll be right beside you.
COMPLETE THE FORM
Ready to take the next step?
Fill out the short application to schedule your personal consultation.
This is your chance to share what’s really going on—and to explore how coaching can support you in moving forward with more clarity, strength, and direction.
WHY WORK WITH US?
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You’ll be met with understanding, not judgment.
We know how heavy it can all feel. We meet you where you are—with compassion, clarity, and calm. -
You get personalized support, not one-size-fits-all advice.
Your story, your goals, your pace. We create a coaching experience that’s tailored to you—not just your situation. -
You’ll reconnect with your own wisdom.
We help you cut through the noise and rebuild trust in yourself, so you can make decisions with confidence.
